I Choose

As a human being, I have choices. A choice to choose anything I want to do or not to do.

I choose to go out or to study. I choose to join a gym. I choose to lose weight...

Everything depends on what I choose and what I want. As they say, if there is a will there is always a way. There is nothing such as "I can't do this" or I can't lose weight or stick to this diet. If you really want to, you can do anything. You should have that "will" to find the way.

Similar, I also can choose what I want to feel. I wake up in the morning leaving everything behind and choosing to be okay. I choose to not be depressed. I choose everyday how I want to be this day, and this is how I make my life better. I choose to be happy. I choose not to think about the things that makes me sad and be happy instead.

If I choose to be sad, I'd start thinking about those friends I had that I don't have anymore. I'd think about those who I trusted and betrayed me. I'd think about the things I lost or the things that I could have done better. I'd think about death and fear. I'd think about the defects I have in me, or why did this happen especially to me.

All kinds of depressing thoughts. But what's the point? Being depressed or sad is not gonna help in anything. Nothing will change. And even this could make things worse.

For instance, if I lost someone by a breakup or death, I don't have to mourn about it! These things happen. So if I choose to be sad, I'd start to think about it! I'd think about how it's not gonna be the same anymore. But I can control this. If I choose to be happy, I will try to enjoy what I have. I would move on. I can go out, listen to happy music, do the things I love to do, and keep myself busy in good things. I will not think about how I lost them. I'd think about other stuff and do other things.

I believe we can control our feelings.

We control our mind and it cannot control us.

What is Love by Jaeson Ma

Now Hollywood wants to make you think they know what love is. But I´m a tell you what true love is. Love is not what you see in the movies. Its not the ecstasy its not what you see in that scene you know what I mean? I´m telling you right now true love is sacrifice. Love is thinking about others before you think about yourself love is selfless not selfish. Love is God and God is love. Love is when you lay down your life for another whether for your brother your mother your father or your sister its even laying down your life for your enemies that´s unthinkable but think about that. Love is true. Think.

Love is patient love is kind. It does not envy it does not boast it is not proud. It is not rude it is not self-seeking it is not easily angered it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects always trusts always hopes it always perseveres.

Love never fails. Love is everlasting its eternal it goes on and on it goes beyond time love is the only thing that will last when you die but ask the question why? Do you have love?

There is no greater love than this than he who lays down his life for his friends. Now are you willing to lay down your life for your friends? You´re probably willing to lay down your life for your mother your father or your best friends but are you willing to lay down your life for even those that hate you? I´m going to tell you who did that the definition of love is Jesus Christ. He is love. The nails in his hands the thorns in his brow hanging on a cross for your sin my sins that is LOVE he died for you and me while we still hated him that is love. God is true love and if you don´t know this love now is the time to know perfect love.